pgsql: pg_ctl: Change default to wait for all actions

pg_ctl: Change default to wait for all actions

The different actions in pg_ctl had different defaults for -w and -W,
mostly for historical reasons. Most users will want the -w behavior, so
make that the default.

Remove the -w option in most example and test code, so avoid confusion
and reduce verbosity. pg_upgrade is not touched, so it can continue to
work with older installations.

Reviewed-by: Beena Emerson <memissemerson(at)gmail(dot)com>
Reviewed-by: Ryan Murphy <ryanfmurphy(at)gmail(dot)com>

Branch
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master

Details
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http://git.postgresql.org/pg/commitdiff/05cd12ed5bc74c853a161c5a138a0cb6f9b0cb8a

Modified Files
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contrib/start-scripts/freebsd | 5 ++--
contrib/start-scripts/linux | 5 ++--
contrib/start-scripts/osx/PostgreSQL | 3 +--
doc/src/sgml/ref/pg_ctl-ref.sgml | 36 ++++++++++++++-------------
src/bin/pg_ctl/pg_ctl.c | 15 ++---------
src/bin/pg_ctl/t/001_start_stop.pl | 18 +++++++-------
src/bin/pg_ctl/t/003_promote.pl | 10 ++++----
src/test/modules/commit_ts/t/003_standby_2.pl | 2 +-
src/test/perl/PostgresNode.pm | 12 ++++-----
src/tools/msvc/vcregress.pl | 4 +--
10 files changed, 49 insertions(+), 61 deletions(-)