pgsql: Enable test_cplusplusext with MSVC

Enable test_cplusplusext with MSVC

The test_cplusplusext test module has so far been disabled on MSVC.
The only remaining problem now is that designated initializers, as
used in PG_MODULE_MAGIC, require C++20. (With GCC and Clang they work
in older C++ versions as well.)

This adds another test in the top-level meson.build to check that the
compiler supports C++20 designated initializers. This is not
required, we are just checking and recording the answer. If yes, we
can enable the test module.

Most current compilers likely won't be in C++20 mode by default. This
doesn't change that; we are not doing anything to try to switch the
compiler into that mode. This might be a separate project, but for
now we'll leave that for the user or the test scaffolding.

The VS task on Cirrus CI is changed to provide the required flag to
turn on C++20 mode.

There is no equivalent change in configure, since this change mainly
targets MSVC.

Co-authored-by: Jelte Fennema-Nio <postgres(at)jeltef(dot)nl>
Discussion: https://www.postgresql.org/message-id/flat/CAGECzQR21OnnKiZO_1rLWO0-16kg1JBxnVq-wymYW0-_1cUNtg%40mail.gmail.com

Branch
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master

Details
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https://git.postgresql.org/pg/commitdiff/c05ad248f99c729b53f6fa83939266b509682c33

Modified Files
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.cirrus.tasks.yml | 1 +
meson.build | 14 ++++++++++++++
src/test/modules/test_cplusplusext/meson.build | 7 +------
3 files changed, 16 insertions(+), 6 deletions(-)