pgsql: Send ALPN in TLS handshake, require it in direct SSL connections

Send ALPN in TLS handshake, require it in direct SSL connections

libpq now always tries to send ALPN. With the traditional negotiated
SSL connections, the server accepts the ALPN, and refuses the
connection if it's not what we expect, but connecting without ALPN is
still OK. With the new direct SSL connections, ALPN is mandatory.

NOTE: This uses "TBD-pgsql" as the protocol ID. We must register a
proper one with IANA before the release!

Author: Greg Stark, Heikki Linnakangas
Reviewed-by: Matthias van de Meent, Jacob Champion

Branch
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master

Details
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https://git.postgresql.org/pg/commitdiff/91044ae4baeac2e501e34164a69bd5d9c4976d21

Modified Files
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doc/src/sgml/libpq.sgml | 12 +++++
src/backend/libpq/be-secure-openssl.c | 77 ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
src/backend/tcop/backend_startup.c | 8 ++++
src/bin/psql/command.c | 7 ++-
src/include/libpq/libpq-be.h | 1 +
src/include/libpq/pqcomm.h | 19 ++++++++
src/interfaces/libpq/fe-secure-openssl.c | 35 +++++++++++++++
7 files changed, 157 insertions(+), 2 deletions(-)