Restrict concurrent update/delete with UPDATE of partition key

Hi All,

Attaching POC patch that throws an error in the case of a concurrent update
to an already deleted tuple due to UPDATE of partition key[1].

In a normal update new tuple is linked to the old one via ctid forming
a chain of tuple versions but UPDATE of partition key[1] move tuple
from one partition to an another partition table which breaks that chain.

Consider a following[2] concurrent update case where one session trying to
update a row that's locked for a concurrent update by the another session
cause tuple movement to the another partition.

create table foo (a int2, b text) partition by list (a);
create table foo1 partition of foo for values IN (1);
create table foo2 partition of foo for values IN (2);
insert into foo values(1, 'ABC');

----------- session 1 -----------
postgres=# begin;
BEGIN
postgres=# update foo set a=2 where a=1;
UPDATE 1

----------- session 2 -----------
postgres=# update foo set b='EFG' where a=1;

….. wait state ……

----------- session 1 -----------
postgres=# commit;
COMMIT

----------- session 2 -----------
UPDATE 0

This UPDATE 0 is the problematic, see Greg Stark's update[3] explains
why we need an error.

To throw an error we need an indicator that the targeted row has been
already moved to the another partition, and for that setting a ctid.ip_blkid to
InvalidBlockId looks viable option for now.

The attached patch incorporates the following logic suggested by Amit
Kapila[4]:

"We can pass a flag say row_moved (or require_row_movement) to heap_delete
which will in turn set InvalidBlockId in ctid instead of setting it to
self. Then the
ExecUpdate needs to check for the same and return an error when heap_update is
not successful (result != HeapTupleMayBeUpdated)."

1] https://postgr.es/m/CAJ3gD9do9o2ccQ7j7%2BtSgiE1REY65XRiMb%3DyJO3u3QhyP8EEPQ%40mail.gmail.com
2] With https://postgr.es/m/CAJ3gD9fzD4jBpv+zXqZYnW=h9JXUFG9E7NGdA9gR_JJbOj=Q5A@mail.gmail.com
patch applied.
3] https://postgr.es/m/CAM-w4HPis7rbnwi%2BoXjnouqMSRAC5DeVcMdxEXTMfDos1kaYPQ%40mail.gmail.com
4] https://postgr.es/m/CAA4eK1KEZQ%2BCyXbBzfn1jFHoEfa_OemDLhLyy7xfD1QUZLo1DQ%40mail.gmail.com

Regards,
Amul