Let plan_cache_mode to be a little less strict

Hi,

I believe the behaviour of the choose_custom_plan function should be
adjusted slightly.

The CachedPlanSource can operate in either auto mode or force a specific
plan type. Currently, the force_generic_plan option declares all plans
as generic, except one-shot plans, of course. However, the
CachedPlanSource entry also has a cursor_options field that indicates
the caller's anticipation of a specific plan type for the statement.
This means that the configuration parameter (GUC) currently overrides
any explicit request for a plan type. The documentation does not clearly
explain the rationale behind this, at least to me.
I propose that the declaration of cursor_options should take precedence
over the GUC. This change would alter the interpretation of the GUC from
a 'forced' plan type to a 'default' plan type. By making this
adjustment, users and extensions can be more assured that they will
receive the requested plan type.

If there are no objections, I will add this patch to the next commitfest.

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regards, Andrei Lepikhov