Would this give you what you want?
SELECT j.id, j.created, COUNT(mj.mid),
SUM(CASE WHEN ml.state <> 11 THEN 1 ELSE 0 END) AS tally_1,
SUM (CASE WHEN ml.state IN(2,5) THEN 1 ELSE 0 END)AS tally_2
FROM j, mj, ml
WHERE j.fkey = 1
AND mj.jid = j.id
AND ml.jid = j.id;