automatically lower string and remove unnecessary whitespace when INSERT INTO table

Hi, I have table which has two column ( column a & b ). One of the
column has type string..... that is column_a.
Assume somebody insert this value to my table:
INSERT INTO my_table ( column_a ) VALUES ( ' Bla bla bla ' );

I want that string value ( ' Bla bla bla ' ) to be lowered
before insert into my table and remove unnecessary space. So the value
will be 'bla bla bla'. The space is just one. There will be no space in
front and back of the string. I don't want double space between word
too. How do I accomplish that?????

This is my best effort:
CREATE RULE string_insert AS
ON INSERT TO my_table
DO
UPDATE my_table SET column_a = lower(column_a);

However this way is not efficient because it will update all row. I just
want to update only row which has just been inserted into table. And how
do you remove the double space between words? I know there is function
trim to remove leading and trailing space. But space more than one
between two words?????

Thank you.

Regards,

Akbar