limiting results makes the query slower

Hi,

in a web app we have a query that we want to show in limited results
at a time, this one executes in 10 seconds if i use limit but executes
in 300ms if i remove it.
why is that happening? the query is using and index for avoiding the
sort so the nestloop should go only for the first 20 records on
tgen_persona, no?
below some more info

postgresql 8.3.7
ram 32GB
shared_buffers 8GB
work_mem 8MB

tgen_persona has 185732 records and tcom_invitacion is a partitioned
(by dates: 1 month every partition) table and has more than 29million
records in the partitions

explain analyze here: http://explain.depesz.com/s/B4

the situation improves if i disable nestloops, explain analyze with
nestloop off here: http://explain.depesz.com/s/Jv

select Per.razon_social as MAIL,inv.cata_esta_calificacion,
inv.observa_calificacion,
to_char(inv.fech_crea,'YYYY:MM:DD') as fech_crea,
case when (( select cod_estado FROM TPRO_PROVEEDOR
WHERE id_proveedor = (select max(a.id_proveedor)
from tpro_proveedor a
where persona_id = Inv.persona_id )
)='Habilitado')
then 'Habilitado'
else 'Deshabilitado'
end as empresa_id
from tgen_persona Per, tcom_invitacion Inv
where Per.persona_id = Inv.persona_id
and inv.id_soli_compra = '60505'
ORDER BY Per.razon_social asc limit 20 offset 0

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Atentamente,
Jaime Casanova
Soporte y capacitación de PostgreSQL
Asesoría y desarrollo de sistemas
Guayaquil - Ecuador
Cel. +59387171157